For me, UNPLUGGING = ME + GOD, because anything extra is just a distraction.
Know this: Every idea, every attempt, every event is not always going to work out the first time. So then what....?
I was comfortable with the rough rider, the one who I knew wouldn't commit and would do me wrong because at least I KNEW what he was about.
Relationship issue #1: I often came off as controlling in an effort to ensure I would not be left alone.